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Friday, October 14, 2005

Sauce and Beans

Today is Friday and I am suppose to be preparing for a rehearsal dinner for someone I have not yet met. The couple is getting married tomorrow. I find it fascinating how marriage comes up in one's thoughts when it does. I would like to let it be known... (beware of the sarcasm in the following statement)
I love to dress up for weddings. If only I wasn't trying so hard to make you laugh. Now really, do you know a guy who truly enjoys dressing up for anything? I am sure they exist but I haven't met any yet. Having said that, I will admit, should I be dressing up for my wedding, I might rather like it.
Choices to be made
Generally, I don't enjoy choices. Whether it's food choices, life choices, financial choices, sock choices, clothing choices, fast food or sit down choices, toothpaste choices, when to stop writing the word "choices".......oh so many choices! No, I don't enjoy making these choices unless someone else makes em for me, then I will sometimes wish I would've made my own choice.
Dressing up choices
I know sometimes one doesn't have a choice for what is worn, especially should one be married already.... but if I do get the luxury to make my own choice, I will wear a tie at my wedding. I like ties. If only I could remember how to tie em. I always forget after the first crossover...or was it the second what to do next..is it under or over?.....can't quite recall but you should see my tie when I get done tying it!
A Wedding
Lord willing, I want to marry my Sweetheart someday, should God leave us here for that day. I know marriage is not all sauce and beans but at least there will be SOME sauce included. Beans aren't so bad either especially refried (my favorite!) but I'm sure that has nothing to do with a wedding. Although come to think of it...it could and won't only impact just a wedding because the more you eat, the more you T**T !! (Forgive me for that one, Sweetheart.)
When we have God as our refuge and strength, we can call on Him to help in the good times and in the struggles. I need constant reminders of this. I pray we will do these things together. I think of the time now while we are dating as a time we can form a routine for seeking Him and praying together.
To conclude
I am happy with today's web log entry. I think I've done many a favor by writing it. Wouldn't you agree? No? Hmm...maybe some things should be kept to myself while other things should definitely be shared. What fun would it be to keep all thoughts to myself? Especially since I know you've thoroughly enjoyed this, perhaps just not quite as much as I have enjoyed writing it.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Honey, you must T**T alot... cuz of all those beans.
No Beans for you on your wedding day, cuz the extra gas may be hazardous when there are romantic candles around.
By the way you look very nice in a tie. Even the ones that you tie...Or at least I couldn't tell that you don't remember how to tie ties.
Now, what was the SAUCE you were talking about on a wedding day? I'm not quite sure if I understand that one...must be a Californian thing or something.
:D