On living and loving

It's been nearly two weeks since coming to South Dakota. Now the process of finding work continues and my becoming culturized to the area does too. Milk gets pasturized and I am learning about a new life once again. I've been a few places in America; all very different; New York, Pittsburgh, Southern Cal to name a few.
Los Angeles, CA is sometimes overwhelming in terms of aggression and impatience. Because people are aggressive, a suitable saying for the area might be what I call the "me first" or "dog eat dog" mentality. I realize not all who live in Southern California, specially the LA basin, fit these terms. In fact, many do not and actually are truly nice and friendly folks. The generalized terms are just that, generalized and a overall feel of the area of which I do not miss. Humboldt County, CA is another extreme. Many here seem to believe not many other people exist on the planet nor care if they do because we are such a special place; the envy of the world. I suppose they have that in common with the southern half of the state. However, Humboldt County doesn't even have a Walmart; also a point many who live here are proud of. To some, it is even a badge of honor. Still others appreciate the beauty of the area and the trees, yet know there is more to life outside the Redwood curtain.
The Twin Cities in Minnesota is a special place to me. I can't completely explain why, but the quality of living is quite nice and the weather is unpredictable too. Country living is next to the city, (within 20 mins) and city living is next to the country which I think is pretty cool. Then there is Todd Friel: a great guy on the radio to listen to. Now, I am in South Dakota. Why is that, you ask? One reason is because I like new places and seeing how people live in different places. The main reason, however, is because of someone special. Someone very special to me. I am not sure what God wants for our lives in terms of where to live but I believe we were brought together for a reason. I believe He brought us together for a purpose and He wants to use us for something. You may see pictures of this special lady, Reada, on my website: www.areyougood.us I love and care for her very much.
If I go to live somewhere else, I pray we are able to go together one day.